How To Use Flirting To Make Her Want You

I want to talk about the concept of "flirting",
and why it's SO important that you understand
exactly what it is and how to do it with women.

To begin with, women know what flirting is and
they respond VERY differently to flirting
communication than they do to typical social
communication.

If you understand flirting and sexual tension,
you can begin conversations with women and have
them INSTANTLY feeling ATTRACTION for you.

If you DON'T understand how flirting and sexual
tension work, then you're either going to have to
become famous or make a LOT of money to be
successful with women.

I'm going to suggest that you learn how to
flirt well, then do it RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING in
your interactions with women to SET THE RIGHT
TONE.

Think of flirting like playing.

Remember when you were a kid and you used to
"play fight" with your friends?

What's the difference between "play" wrestling
and "real" wrestling?

And how do you know the difference when it's
happening... when your friend runs up and pushes
you down, then jumps on you and tries to pin you?

The answer is YOU JUST KNOW. It's obvious to
humans (and other animals, by the way) when
someone is "playing" and when they're serious.

Flirting is similar.

If you start talking to a woman and say, "Hi,
you're very pretty. You probably have a boyfriend,
right?" in a normal tone of voice, you're NOT
flirting.

On the other hand, if you say, "Hi, I realize
that you're probably shy because you get no
attention from men... so I thought I'd come over
here and pay attention to you..." it's OBVIOUS
that you're not being serious. This is flirting.

By the way, flirting IS NOT simply telling
jokes, or trying to be "cute".

One of the concepts that I teach is called
"Cocky & Funny."

Cocky & Funny is simply a powerful,
concentrated way of flirting and creating sexual
tension with a specific kind of humor.

It's so funny to me how some guys write in
because they "can't see themselves being Cocky &
Funny around women" because they don't want to
come across as jerks.

This really cracks me up... because it's
obvious to me that these guys JUST DON'T GET IT.

So let me explain this whole thing a different
way...

If you know how to communicate the right way,
women will respond to you RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING
with a HIGH LEVEL of sexual interest and
ATTRACTION.

When you know how to incorporate flirting in a
Cocky & Funny way, which is really a form of
"adult verbal play", you tune in to a certain
frequency in a woman's mind and cause her to go
into a very special kind of emotional state.

One of the keys to effective flirting is to
"get it". In other words, you have to actually get
out there and practice so you get a "feel" for how
it works.

I think a lot of guys give up when they try a
cute line or technique and a woman responds by
saying "You're a loser." Instead of just realizing
that they need more practice or that the woman
might have just been in a bad mood or even one of
those horrible "I don't have a sense of humor"
cases, they take it personally and decide to just
have it mean that they're a failure.

But take my word for it... once you learn how
to flirt effectively and communicate in the
language of "adult play" you WILL SIMPLY NOT
BELIEVE how women will respond to you.


Here's an example of some of one of my favorite
topics to "riff on" when flirting... the topic of
getting married and us being in a relationship...
and I'll give it to you in the form of a sample
dialogue. Keep in mind, I might have a
conversation like this one with a woman that I
just met five minutes earlier...

Her: "I have a good job, and I make good money"

Me: "Nice. I like that in a woman. Want to get
married? We could leave for Vegas right now and be
married in about 4 or 5 hours. I need a woman with
money."

Her: "OK, that sounds like a plan"

Me: "But wait a minute... do you think you can
support the both of us on your income? I really
want to be a stay at home husband... you know,
keep an eye on the TV and such."

Her: "Oh, no... I won't support you."

Me: "Well, then I'm breaking up with you. It's
over between us. I was going to marry you, then
divorce you a week later and take half your
money."

Her: "You can't break up with me! I'm
not even your girlfriend."

Me: "That's all the more reason."

...do you get what's going on here?

I'm taking a normal conversation topic (her job
and income) and redirecting the conversation in a
flirtatious, Cocky & Funny way to create a fun
mood and sexual tension (by suggesting marriage,
divorce, and breaking up over her not supporting
me, etc.).

If the above example doesn't make any sense to
you, then take that as a sign that you need to get
out and practice more. Try it on a waitress or
two.

When you ask for something and she says, "I'm
sorry, we don't have that", just say, "OK, this
relationship isn't working out... I'm going to
have to break up with you."

In fact, you can say this in just about ANY
situation with ANY woman where she's saying
something that you don't like, and it's funny.

When you communicate like this, you're
FLIRTING, you're TEASING, and you're initiating a
DIFFERENT KIND OF COMMUNICATION than what most men
initiate.

And as soon as the woman you're talking to
"engages" you in this kind of dialogue, THE GAME
IS ON.

There are a LOT of ways you can flirt, and a
lot of ways you can be Cocky & Funny that DON'T
REQUIRE WORDS.

If a woman looks at you and raises one eyebrow,
look back at her and do the same... only
exaggerate it.

If a woman puts her hand on your arm, look down
at it, then look up at her in a surprised way,
then raise your eyebrows as if you just had a
major "ah ha!" realization... then start smiling
and nodding your head as if you just realized that
she wants you. This is a powerful combination
because it's funny, and it exaggerates the meaning
in her touching you.

There are a MILLION ways to flirt like this,
but the point that I'm trying to make is that you
NEED TO START DOING IT RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING OF
YOUR INTERACTIONS WITH WOMEN.

It will set off all of your conversations with
women on the right foot, and start a dialogue that
creates sexual tension and ATTRACTION.

If you DON'T learn how to communicate with
women like this you'll have BORING, "NORMAL"
conversations that NEVER lead to sexual tension
and ATTRACTION.

Remember, women can tell INSTANTLY whether
you're flirting with them or not. If you are, and
you're doing it in a subtle, charming way, you'll
get amazing responses.

One of the keys to flirting and creating
ATTRACTION effectively, is projecting confidence
and indifference both in your voice tone and body
language as you do it...

And in order to project these things, you need
to have the right understanding and BELIEFS about
how male/female ATTRACTION works... and then be
able to project them throughout your conversation
with women.

If you don't naturally "get" the concept of
flirting with women, and you'd like to learn how
to use it to spark ATTRACTION, build Sexual
Tension and eventually take things to a PHYSICAL
LEVEL, then I highly recommend that you get your
hands on a copy of my "Sexual Communication"
program.

Over the time I spent learning directly from
guys who were REALLY good with women, I noticed
something that they were all doing... that most
men literally CAN'T SEE.

I discovered what I think of as a "secret
language" that men and women use to communicate on
a "sexual level"...



The world itself, inside us...
Regards,Ralp~